RE: Inceldom
September 10, 2023 at 5:39 pm
(This post was last modified: September 10, 2023 at 5:40 pm by FrustratedFool.)
It's odd to me that you interpret my posts that way.
I don't believe I'm obsessed with anything, including this issue.
I believe some people are considered ugly/unattarctive by most others in their society, and that some of these people have been repeatedly told that. I think this just a fact.
I believe being unattractive/ugly makes dating much harder. Some may still 'get laid', and virtually all could have sex with a sex workers, but their dating life will be much more problematic, slow, sparse, awkward etc than their more attractive peers. Some will be so held back by their unattractiveness that they will not plausibly be able to have a relationship unless their looks change.
I believe that lack of friendship and sexual validation and romantic relationships, especially when combined with ostracisation and bullying, lead to mental health problems for many. And increases the chance of them being radicalised, possibly even leading to violence.
I believe shooting up schools a bad thing that causes much suffering. I think it would be better for all if that didn't happen. I think that if we as a society were better able to prevent or treat the mental health issues that led some to do such atrocious aacts we'd all be better off. I think part of the prevention of this is to treat the issue of loneliness and trauma caused by ugliness/ unattractiveness. I can't see really any solution to this except technological innovation.
I believe beauty is subjective. But I also believe that evolution and social conditioning make it more of a consensus than many suppose. Some people will be held to be attractive to a majority in their culture, and some will be held to be ugly by a majority.
But what lies do you think I've told so far?
I don't believe I'm obsessed with anything, including this issue.
I believe some people are considered ugly/unattarctive by most others in their society, and that some of these people have been repeatedly told that. I think this just a fact.
I believe being unattractive/ugly makes dating much harder. Some may still 'get laid', and virtually all could have sex with a sex workers, but their dating life will be much more problematic, slow, sparse, awkward etc than their more attractive peers. Some will be so held back by their unattractiveness that they will not plausibly be able to have a relationship unless their looks change.
I believe that lack of friendship and sexual validation and romantic relationships, especially when combined with ostracisation and bullying, lead to mental health problems for many. And increases the chance of them being radicalised, possibly even leading to violence.
I believe shooting up schools a bad thing that causes much suffering. I think it would be better for all if that didn't happen. I think that if we as a society were better able to prevent or treat the mental health issues that led some to do such atrocious aacts we'd all be better off. I think part of the prevention of this is to treat the issue of loneliness and trauma caused by ugliness/ unattractiveness. I can't see really any solution to this except technological innovation.
I believe beauty is subjective. But I also believe that evolution and social conditioning make it more of a consensus than many suppose. Some people will be held to be attractive to a majority in their culture, and some will be held to be ugly by a majority.
But what lies do you think I've told so far?