I think you are beating a dead horse. And I don't think it's common for people to be told they are ugly. Who does that beyond schoolyard bullies?
I have been around a while. Surely longer than you have. I don't recall anyone I went to school with being called ugly. I know of some friends from high school who would get drunk and cry and call themselves ugly. I have three grown kids...one got some grief over a facial birthmark but mostly people grew out of that kind of behavior. Even with his birthmark, he didn't seem to have trouble getting dates with some pretty girls and is now in a long term relationship.
Three kids going through school and I didn't experience this sort of thing that you are so obsessed with.
If your issue is that you think you are ugly...don't project that onto others. If you were told on the regular that you are ugly then the people doing it were in the wrong. But it's not something that happens as often as you would like to say it does.
What I say tends to be deliberate in that I say what I mean and I mean what I say.
And ugly can be much more than appearance. Ugly does not equal incel and the reverse.
I have been around a while. Surely longer than you have. I don't recall anyone I went to school with being called ugly. I know of some friends from high school who would get drunk and cry and call themselves ugly. I have three grown kids...one got some grief over a facial birthmark but mostly people grew out of that kind of behavior. Even with his birthmark, he didn't seem to have trouble getting dates with some pretty girls and is now in a long term relationship.
Three kids going through school and I didn't experience this sort of thing that you are so obsessed with.
If your issue is that you think you are ugly...don't project that onto others. If you were told on the regular that you are ugly then the people doing it were in the wrong. But it's not something that happens as often as you would like to say it does.
What I say tends to be deliberate in that I say what I mean and I mean what I say.
And ugly can be much more than appearance. Ugly does not equal incel and the reverse.
I'm your huckleberry.
