(November 8, 2023 at 3:05 pm)Foxaèr Wrote:She has been taking care of him for 24 years now. He can depend on her but she can't depend on him.(November 8, 2023 at 2:53 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: After years of putting up with his BS it looks as though my daughter is finally done with her husband's crap. She is working to get away from him by the time their lease is up in March. She seems serious this time...she is completely out of fucks to give. He lost another job...one she got him at her place of employment to keep them afloat.
Her goal has been to get The Bail through high school and now Bail is almost through her first semester of college. So, she did what she was determined to do. She finally realizes that you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped.
I'm just trying to be as supportive as possible. She has put her whole life aside to keep them going in order to raise their child. Now maybe she can have some peace and a life.
I can understand how some people just are not meant to work. They are the modern equivalent of Victorian people who could not deal with certain circumstances. But if your daughter is not comfortable taking care of him, then, yes, she is better off leaving him for her own sanity and happiness.
That's just the tip of the iceberg.
I'm your huckleberry.
