(April 17, 2025 at 1:42 pm)Alan V Wrote:(April 17, 2025 at 1:22 pm)Angrboda Wrote: If you don't have any expectations, then you'll never be disappointed.
Expectations are built up by experience, so I find that position hard to understand.
You expect to have expectations? At least one should be reasonable in expecting that the world will not be defied by the artificial impositions of our experience.
Ultimately, our knowledge of the world is descriptive, not prescriptive; and we exceed that remit at our peril.
The world's great religions all suggest we temper if not wholly abandon our expectations. From the moral humility asked of a Christian who expects redemption to come from outside themselves through grace, to the Buddha who teaches us to detach ourselves from Dukkha and the illusions of the ego, to the Taoist who tells us to be as the uncarved block. Even the best of our science tells us that we are to measure real success in terms of failure and surprise, rather than confirmation and fulfilled expectations.
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