Truce

[Violet]

Not sure if it is an adventure I want. You never know.

I might know... I've worked my left ankle off trying to make people feel better about themselves and their bodies, only to have them then tell me that I complicated things for them. You can guess what happens at that point.

But then... I've also been taken by surprise. One of my best friends is one such example. He certainly didn't get that title before it, just a distant person I'd known since kindergarten. I didn't suspect it either, didn't even try to get closer to him... then before I know it I'm having the most emotionally validating sex of my life.

He didn't vanish from my life afterwards.

Our friendship is awesome. we dont have to talk, but we can, we are open and comfortable. if we were together we could have sex and it wouldnt be awkward, or we could just talk and play chess and it wouldnt be awkward. that is like the ultimate friendship

So yes, it can go badly. And yes, it can be amazing. I'm not nearly so incredible, and so I believe it would be at best a neutral experience for you. At the end of the day... it's not the number of people you're having sex with: It's if those people care about you, and if you're gaining emotionally from the experience.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c6j8EiWIVZs

But don't take my word for it...