(March 17, 2012 at 6:32 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote: GIA....
You worry unnecessarily...your children will shine IN SPITE OF everything you do to help them. Such is the way of youth. They HAVE to be hurt (unmercifully) and as a parent it is like death of a million small cuts to watch but they WILL survive it and become the discerning individuals that you had always hoped they would be.
As for the OP... yes there are many males to whom the concept of commitment is an anathema to their very being but it is not the norm. Teach your children that life is a tow way street, what they give they get,
Really?
Did you parents pass on a huge debt to you?
Do you know of any other time in history where parents cared so little for their children and morality and knowingly continued to drive their national debts so high that the upcoming generations knew full well that they would never be able to pay off their parents debts; thanks to the fact that their parents did not control their varied passions and self-centeredness?
Not caring enough about our children and not controlling our various passions is certainly giving our children a good example. Not.
We are destroying the very environment that they will need to live in as they pay for our abuses. Shame on us.
All this goes against the old moral adage of leaving thinks equal or better than what we found.
Regards
DL