Ha, I'm kind of in the same boat. . . but I'd go for near ANY female or trans-gendered person. My one requirement: must be an Atheist. Literally. That's my only requirement. I honestly don't care much at all about appearances. (Sadly, my only requirement cuts off 90% of all available women in America. Also, I never accept offers from people online, so sorry, ladies of the Atheist Forum. )
I really have no idea what you should do. If I did, I'd have tried it. So far, I've been trying to cultivate a mental attitude of "To hell with it, I don't mind being really fucking lonely all the time." You could try that.
What falls away is always, and is near.
Also, I am not pretending to be female, this profile picture is my wonderful girlfriend. XD