How to not be desperate for a gf?

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What's wrong with having girls as friends? I have quite a few girls who are very good friends of mine. We never do anything sexual nor speak of anything of sex or getting into some sort of relationship. Just regular friends. Like male friends really.

Nothing. But with girls whom I would like to go out with, or have a certain emotional attachment, I rather have no friendly relations.
If I want a girl as a regular friend, I generally write them on my list as such.
Those with whom I want a relationship, as such.

Total nonsense. I was friends with Katie for months, after all that time, feelings were developing and we ended up kissing in the end. Never intended to go that far but did because we felt the feelings and it felt right.

Maybe for your case. I already said I speak of personal experience.
Besides, you don't have to kiss to know that you are gf and bf.
If you see eachother each day after some time, the girl herself will ask to you "now what are we" in like, are we just friends or together.
This of course is a matter of chance, you have to invest time into it, but it does not take up months to understand that you're dating eachother. In my cases, it took up a few weeks at most, really. I generally give up on the issue after the first one and a half weeks, if not, I keep on.
Kissing and stuff is something that happens either late or early, depending on how open the girl is about these things.
For sex, I don't know, after getting the girls permission, I have to give myself permission. I generally ask the girl if she's virgin or not. If she's a virgin, it means that it won't happen. I do not want to be the person to have taken someone's virginity. That girl will marry some day, and maybe regret having sex before marriage, and will curse my name for taking advantage of her and deflowering her.
But if she's already a non-virgin, then I am unburdened of this responsibility.

Love is a risky game and you can get a little hurt if the other lacks the feelings you have, but that's love for you. If I like someone, I would always go for friendship first. Allows time for each other to learn and understand each other. With mutual respect you should have no trouble coming to some kind of agreement whatever that agreement is.

I cannot bear the responsibility of being denounced in public, and therefore I generally do not put too much pressure on anyone, as people can really get very agitated. I understood this after giving my place to a girl in the bus, she became angry and asked me who I was and why I gave her my place if I wanted to hit on her or something. I didn't know her, true, but I just wanted to be polite.
Obviously being polite is a crime these days. I'm happy to commit that crime every day.

I am patient, however if the other did not show any interest I would let it go before any strong feelings develop. Save yourself the pain sort of thing.

I never experienced that pain, as I let go very easily.