How to not be desperate for a gf?

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KM, you do not have interest in the emotions of women.

I only care for the emotions of a woman if that woman cares about my emotions.
I believe in complete equality in relationships.

It is perhaps a cultural thing, but to you, women are less human, less complete, less capable.

I don't know how you were able to extract this from my posts, but I view women as my equals. Doing the opposite would be to contradict my own ideology.

You do not yet seem to have the ability to care in a complete way for a woman

I care about a woman as a person, not as a "woman" if I want to care about her in a friendly or sisterly way.
I have not taken this matter up in that context. In that context, I do not differentiate between sexes, other than my form of conduct around them, like not swearing, doing inappropriate things or being a bit more polite.
For women I want as girlfriend, I look at her as a "woman", not as simply another person. I form my views under that context on what she could want or not.
I hope I'm clear, but I really don't have to answer your baseless accusations, I want you to know that.

perhaps Turkish women prefer distant, uncaring men who despise them.

Well, again, without experiencing the same amount of care and closeness, I do not waste my time and effort on people who are short on these two when it comes to relationships.
I don't think what can be more rational. To show care and interest in a particular woman while receiving nothing back, and doing this for some time, only to see that woman with someone else in the end is something I do not want to experience, as I've seen people going down that road, and they were really, really pathetic. I pitied them, and told them to cut off relations.
I show care and interest to a woman if I want her as my woman, and I do so sparingly at the start. This prevents certain misunderstandings.

I really do understand people like you, friend.
You want to be seen as caring and understanding before the gals, perhaps. I don't know what is in your inner world, how you curse after a girl who has not returned your attentions, or how many times you have called your ex-gf a whore, a slut or whatever.
I felt no such need, because I know certain traits in people when I see them. If I'm let down, I am never surprised. Similarly, I do not like to surprise others. I have only promised one thing. I am fair towards people. I treat them as they treat me. There are many cases I treat them as I'd like to be treated, but I think that these are cases in which there is a certain trust between me and that individual.
In some rare cases as with the bus case, I've been treated in a way I don't approve of, but I can't help to be polite. Understanding? Well, that is a word that I generally don't like to use. It's impossible to understand a person, and everyone has a mask on these days. I won't lie, so do I.
Caring? If people tell me their personal problems, I can only listen. That is the best I can do. Sometimes I try to present a solution, but I know that they won't follow it, and therefore, I do not bother with it.

And these supposedly show you that I hate women, don't they?