Welcome to the forum! It's too bad your wife's family is so narrow minded that they refuse to talk to you because of a simple disagreement that has nothing to do with you as a person. Unfortunately, there are twits out there who treat people who don't believe in a deity as if they're child rapists. But then they'll treat actual child rapists with compassion!
Science flies us to the moon and stars. Religion flies us into buildings.
God allowed 200,000 people to die in an earthquake. So what makes you think he cares about YOUR problems?
God allowed 200,000 people to die in an earthquake. So what makes you think he cares about YOUR problems?