(August 27, 2012 at 5:46 pm)TaraJo Wrote:(August 27, 2012 at 1:15 pm)greneknight Wrote: I didn't know what trans meant but I've finally figured out that it's short for transvestite which is a word I know.
Whoooo, golly. Close, but not exact. Transsexual is someone who identifies as a gender different from the sex they were born with. A transvestite is someone who dresses up as the opposite sex, usually for a sexual thrill. Calling a transsexual a transvestite is about the fastest way I know of to have a herd of angry trannies pissed at you; me, I'm more understanding and laid back about that. Transsexuals are a minority and as a result, not everyone really 'gets' us yet.
Sorry, I really thought it was short for transvestite. What about the term "lesbian"? Is that a more polite and neutral word?