(September 22, 2012 at 8:43 pm)aleialoura Wrote: When I married my gay best friend, she called me "fag lover", and a "freak of nature", because we were in love with each other, though not sexually involved.
I don't know where she stands on all that stuff now. I didn't ask, because the situation didn't feel appropriate.
Good. Don't. I've seen how painful that kind of a shift can be; don't make it any more difficult for her than it has to be. Even though you're an atheist, you might consider looking up a GLBT friendly church for her to go to. They might be able to help her rectify her religious beliefs with her sexual orientation.
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
