(October 29, 2012 at 1:40 am)Spectrum Wrote:(October 29, 2012 at 12:07 am)TaraJo Wrote: You don't think guys can be shallow, too? Have you ever seen the guys on Jersey Shore?
"Can be" =/= large sectors of the young population
Jersey Shore =/= the general population
With that being said, you haven't unraveled my statement one bit. "Guys do it too!" isn't a very good argument. I am not obligated to treat a woman who acts and looks like a slut with respect, because she doesn't even respect herself. I'll treat her like the slut she is and take advantage of the opportunity to get some easy sex, then leave. She isn't relationship material, so I'm moving on.
Actually, that's kinda my point: if you surround yourself with shallow people or you attract shallow people or you choose to keep sleeping with shallow people, you don't really get to complain about people being shallow. If you don't like being surrounded by shallow people, you need to find a better group of people to hang out with. If you're just using these girls for one-night-stands, I don't care as long as everyone understands what's going on. It is a bit unfair that you're going to call her a 'slut' for sleeping with lots of guys without using any introspection to see what it says about you that you'll sleep with those 'sluts.'
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
