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Transexuals
RE: Transexuals
(January 9, 2013 at 2:11 pm)Brian37 Wrote: I do have a question for Violet and Tara. I saw a documentary on transgendered people. One of which regretted the switch and eventually got reverse surgery. Is it possible for brain chemistry to change over a lifetime making sexual identity fluid rather than stagnant?

I will say this, only one of the transgendered in that documentary did that. The rest stayed with what the operation and were happy with it. I know that doctors do lots of rigorous pre-op mental conditioning to be sure the change wont be a bad choice for the person. But do we have research as to the ratio of success vs regret after the fact? I would assume that the "regret" ratio would be extremely low in any case.

I have a friend who seems to identify as more of a fluid gender and since he was born intersexed, it actually works out for him.

But if you do a little research on the people who transition and regret it, you usually see one important facet to them: most of the ones I've seen have been influenced by fundamentalist religious groups. So I put those people in about the same territory I put ex-gays. I guess, since we don't have much in the way of hard-science that tells us what makes people gay or trans or whatever, it's hard to say with certainty that your sexuality or gender identity don't change, but I can say with confidence that prayer isn't gonna do shit to change it.
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Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 7:07 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Darwinian - January 7, 2013 at 7:08 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 7, 2013 at 7:11 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Ryantology - January 7, 2013 at 7:11 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 7:18 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Ryantology - January 7, 2013 at 7:35 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 8:03 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 4:08 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 7:26 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 12:45 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 9, 2013 at 7:34 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 9, 2013 at 10:41 am
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 10:53 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 9, 2013 at 11:17 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 7:12 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 7, 2013 at 7:12 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 8, 2013 at 9:58 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 10:05 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 8, 2013 at 10:07 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 10:09 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 8, 2013 at 10:12 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 9, 2013 at 7:48 am
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 10:30 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 9, 2013 at 10:38 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 7:12 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 7:18 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 7:21 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 7:26 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 7:33 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 7:39 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Napoléon - January 7, 2013 at 8:22 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 8:23 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 7:40 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Rev. Rye - January 8, 2013 at 12:35 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Faith No More - January 7, 2013 at 7:13 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Cyberman - January 7, 2013 at 7:13 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 3:43 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:49 am
RE: Transexuals - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - January 8, 2013 at 3:52 am
RE: Transexuals - by Faith No More - January 7, 2013 at 7:15 pm
RE: Transexuals - by paulpablo - January 7, 2013 at 7:16 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 7:20 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Psykhronic - January 7, 2013 at 7:51 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 7:58 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Darwinian - January 7, 2013 at 8:01 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 8:07 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Psykhronic - January 7, 2013 at 8:01 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 7, 2013 at 8:05 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Psykhronic - January 7, 2013 at 8:08 pm
RE: Transexuals - by HorribleOffensiveScouser91 - January 7, 2013 at 9:02 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 11:13 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 7, 2013 at 11:27 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 11:37 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 7:15 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 12:54 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 1:00 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 7, 2013 at 11:49 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Psykhronic - January 7, 2013 at 11:50 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 7, 2013 at 11:53 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 12:05 am
RE: Transexuals - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - January 8, 2013 at 12:08 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 12:25 am
RE: Transexuals - by Shell B - January 8, 2013 at 12:17 am
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 12:19 am
RE: Transexuals - by Shell B - January 8, 2013 at 12:24 am
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 12:28 am
RE: Transexuals - by Shell B - January 8, 2013 at 12:49 am
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 12:52 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 12:55 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 12:28 am
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 12:36 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 12:37 am
RE: Transexuals - by Shell B - January 8, 2013 at 1:59 am
RE: Transexuals - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - January 8, 2013 at 2:03 am
RE: Transexuals - by Justtristo - January 8, 2013 at 2:08 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:04 am
Re: RE: Transexuals - by fr0d0 - January 8, 2013 at 5:58 am
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 7:22 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 12:59 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 7:40 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 8:16 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 1:02 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - January 8, 2013 at 1:10 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 1:15 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 8:26 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 8:37 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 8:49 am
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 8, 2013 at 8:56 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 8:57 am
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 8, 2013 at 8:59 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:04 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:06 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:11 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 1:23 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 1:27 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 9:12 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:16 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:16 am
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 1:12 pm
Re: RE: Transexuals - by fr0d0 - January 8, 2013 at 8:58 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:03 am
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 9:15 am
RE: Transexuals - by Shell B - January 8, 2013 at 11:50 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 11:55 am
RE: Transexuals - by Annik - January 8, 2013 at 1:01 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 1:28 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 1:35 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 1:35 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 8, 2013 at 9:05 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:28 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:29 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:13 am
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 9:16 am
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 9:19 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:21 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:33 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:37 am
RE: Transexuals - by Napoléon - January 8, 2013 at 9:40 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:41 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:50 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:53 am
RE: Transexuals - by Ben Davis - January 8, 2013 at 10:00 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 10:01 am
RE: Transexuals - by Ben Davis - January 8, 2013 at 11:48 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:43 am
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 9:58 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:20 am
RE: Transexuals - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - January 8, 2013 at 12:12 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Psykhronic - January 8, 2013 at 12:29 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 1:41 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 8, 2013 at 9:27 am
RE: Transexuals - by Napoléon - January 8, 2013 at 9:43 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:49 am
RE: Transexuals - by Napoléon - January 8, 2013 at 9:54 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 10:03 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 10:04 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 10:12 am
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 10:16 am
RE: Transexuals - by Cato - January 8, 2013 at 10:20 am
RE: Transexuals - by Napoléon - January 8, 2013 at 10:21 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 10:26 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 10:21 am
RE: Transexuals - by Cato - January 8, 2013 at 10:16 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 12:35 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 9:57 am
RE: Transexuals - by Napoléon - January 8, 2013 at 9:59 am
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 10:04 am
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 8, 2013 at 10:06 am
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 10:11 am
RE: Transexuals - by LastPoet - January 8, 2013 at 10:17 am
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 10:24 am
RE: Transexuals - by Shell B - January 8, 2013 at 12:57 pm
RE: Transexuals - by LastPoet - January 8, 2013 at 12:05 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 12:52 pm
RE: Transexuals - by downbeatplumb - January 8, 2013 at 2:39 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 2:51 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 3:36 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 3:37 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:39 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 3:40 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 3:41 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 3:42 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 3:43 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 3:44 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 3:45 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:45 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Aractus - January 9, 2013 at 8:11 am
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 9, 2013 at 8:42 am
RE: Transexuals - by Cato - January 8, 2013 at 3:43 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 3:48 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 3:44 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:46 pm
RE: Transexuals - by downbeatplumb - January 8, 2013 at 3:47 pm
RE: Transexuals - by downbeatplumb - January 8, 2013 at 3:45 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:48 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 3:48 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:52 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 3:53 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:54 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Cinjin - January 8, 2013 at 4:00 pm
RE: Transexuals - by downbeatplumb - January 8, 2013 at 3:53 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 3:54 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:56 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 3:55 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Gilgamesh - January 8, 2013 at 3:57 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 3:59 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 4:03 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 4:05 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 4:08 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 4:12 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 4:33 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 4:41 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 4:49 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 5:15 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 4:05 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 4:11 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 4:19 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Cinjin - January 8, 2013 at 4:23 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 8, 2013 at 4:24 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 4:28 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Cinjin - January 8, 2013 at 5:11 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 4:53 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 4:24 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 4:25 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 8, 2013 at 4:38 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 4:38 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 5:20 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 5:26 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 5:40 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Psykhronic - January 8, 2013 at 8:35 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 8:50 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 8, 2013 at 9:18 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 9:24 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 10:43 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 8, 2013 at 11:20 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 11:46 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 9, 2013 at 2:11 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 2:56 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Brian37 - January 9, 2013 at 3:17 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 3:26 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 9, 2013 at 5:46 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 6:02 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 9, 2013 at 6:06 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 6:13 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 9, 2013 at 6:20 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 6:32 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 9, 2013 at 6:34 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 6:37 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 9, 2013 at 6:38 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Darwinian - January 9, 2013 at 6:43 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 6:43 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 9, 2013 at 6:56 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 9, 2013 at 6:58 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 9, 2013 at 6:44 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Violet - January 9, 2013 at 10:07 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Creed of Heresy - January 9, 2013 at 6:14 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Psykhronic - January 9, 2013 at 6:43 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 6:45 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 9, 2013 at 6:46 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 9, 2013 at 6:48 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 9, 2013 at 6:57 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 9, 2013 at 6:58 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 9, 2013 at 7:00 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 9, 2013 at 7:01 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 9, 2013 at 7:02 pm
RE: Transexuals - by BGChuckLee - January 9, 2013 at 7:02 pm
RE: Transexuals - by jonb - January 9, 2013 at 7:15 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Something completely different - January 9, 2013 at 7:05 pm
RE: Transexuals - by TaraJo - January 9, 2013 at 7:24 pm
RE: Transexuals - by Cinjin - January 9, 2013 at 10:17 pm

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