(February 2, 2013 at 11:16 pm)DeistPaladin Wrote: Get to a point where you're fine by yourself and you'll be in a better condition to resume your hunt and more likely to succeed.
That's a good point. That was one of my initial thoughts as well.
So Stimbo, I think it would be helpful for you to take a break from your search - and while you are in that phase - you should reflect on what you think about your own self, who you really are, and what are the things in your life which you already have that make you happy/satisfied.
Also, if you are essentially feeling a desire to be loved and if that is the thing that is driving you to search for a female companionship, then here are two quotes that come to my mind:
"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
- Rumi
"Those that go searching for love, only manifest their own lovelessness. And the loveless never find love, only the loving find love. And they never have to seek for it."
- D.H. Lawrence
