(February 9, 2013 at 4:06 pm)Kayenneh Wrote: Before you judge me, I mean pathetic in this sense: arousing pity, esp. through vulnerability or sadness. And who said I didn't help? Do you honestly think I looked down upon my best friends hurting themselves, being condescending and not caring? Don't let your emotions get the best of you.
I dont judge you, or at least it is not my intention, or at least it is not my intention to judge your or anyones entire character on account of one statement.
How is "someone trying to arouse pitty through vulnerbility and sadness" pathestic? If someone does this through a disorder which requires that individual to be in the center of all attention, it might be seem pathetic, but should first and for most bring forth a reaction of concern.
not amusment.
Quote:Of course you're entitled to voice your opinion, and I understand where the disgust comes from. My point is that I as a person who has suffered through seeing what self-destructiveness can do to people, do not mind when people make jokes like this. We all experience it differently.
Telling someone who suffers to cut his or her throat so one is no longer bothered by that persons behavior - isnt funny.
