Let them preach to you. Tell them, I know you this out of concern for me, I know you are scared that I will go to hell, I know it hurts you, but billions of people on earth are not of this faith as well, and I am just one more person. If being good and open to the light is what is required for God to show me the way per your bible, I can promise you, I will try my best to be a good person and open myself to the light.
Kind words and manners go a long way.
Kind words and manners go a long way.