A challenge about women and marriage in Islam

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No need to. I just wanted to point out to MS that though there is sensible 9-year-olds out there, it doesn't make them adults.

There are a few sensible 45 year olds... probably. I sure haven't met them, but I'm certain they exist and are adults. I don't see what their being 'adults' matters, on the other hand. Is it a person? If yes: it has the rights of a person, in my eyes. If it isn't a person: it has no such rights.

Consider: if there is no need to make an age line at 'the end of the (supposed) development cycle'... why is there an age line that should be made at 14-21 that signifies 'this is an adult now'?

If one is desperate, yes, but that's not advice I would give to anyone.

It's not even about desperation... it's about your desires, and fulfilling them. Whole lot of people out there who'll only settle for an '8' or higher (out of ten). So many miserable average people out there who would be willing to go for you, who are 5s.

It's the advice I'd give to anyone: Lower your fucking standards, in all cases.

Sure, being 20 and having sex with someone who's older could be really nice, but that does not apply for children.

So it could be really nice, a solid experience, safer... and it doesn't apply children. Why? Seems a lot better than allowing sex to be remembered as a painful and miserable experience for them.

And I'm aware of that. There's also older people, who will bump up the bar, my point was that the lowest average was at 15.6, though there might be someone aged 9 in there, it was still almost 7 years away from 9. If there indeed are so many horny 9-year-olds out there who just can't wait to have sex, it should be reflected in the statistics.

Kids aren't quite as creative at circumnavigating parents at nine as they get in their teens. It isn't that children aren't starting to get horny at nine (a good few neighbors are, if my alaskan experience is worth shit), it's that they're never given the chance. I mean... if at *10* they're teaching the girls in class about sex and condoms and shizzle... and at *11* they teach the boys: clearly somebody realizes that they're in enough 'danger' of having sex to teach every one of them

Tell that to the girls in paulpablo's videos. "Dearest, why do you die, evolution says that you should be able to carry a fetus full term!"

You just stated an evolutionary process... lol. If it isn't dying while others are surviving... it isn't evolution

Clearly there are a number enough who can survive it that they can get pregnant. It's not that it isn't dangerous... it's not that it isn't likely to kill them... it's that enough have managed it that it isn't impossible.

And you think that's at 9?

I think that it's independent of age entirely. Every case is different.

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An arranged marriage is a force marriage by an external force.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forced_marriage

That is why young women/children are flow out of the country for this type of marriage.

No... an arranged marriage is a marriage set up by the parents or guardians of two young people. Some would call them children, but it can happen with adults too.

The arranged marriage is sometimes coerced... but very rarely forced. And it's not illegal (though forcing it might be), which is the key behind my response.

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