Any questions on Islam?

[Muslim Scholar]

Women are not obligated to spend on their husbands, if she did it is like a gift from her.

My income will be my husbands, and likewise. Our combined incomes will go to support our family including our residence.That's how it goes for most middle and lower income families. Are you saying women have their own bank accounts there? Because I highly doubt that.

Of course she has!
In Islam to marry a woman, the man must pay a "Dowry" which can reach 100s of thousands and is the woman's to keep
and she doesn't need to spend a penny on her home.

I'll spend on them, give you a salary for raising them as well

Here we call that child support. don't have 8kids if you're going to complain about being the supporter of them. Treat your wife right if you don't want to pay allimony. Here in America, most women decline allimony because they can support themselves on their own after a divorce. Your women however, whom you scoop up for marriage in school age then have her producing baby after baby after baby after baby after baby after baby after baby after baby (8) well they have no education and no prospects for work after divorce. Oh and she has your kids to raise. You abandon her after you've used her to fend for herself after she's given you everything

You have very false ideas about Islam
It is not like that, she has the rights to be educated and work and keep all her money for herself
What happens in some Islamic societies is not necessary Islam.

then after 9 for boys and 11 for girls then can live with me.

The default is to live with mother till 11 & 9 then with father
anyway the father is to support them.