The reason the father isn't taken into consideration is because he isn't carrying the baby for nine months. If you have never been pregnant or had a baby you can't possibly understand the huge burden you're asking a woman to bare by carrying that baby. Yes there is adoption which is a wonderful thing, but I can't imagine what it's like to just hand over a baby, even one I didn't want. It fucks with your head forever. I personally would get an abortion before giving up a baby and I have. I'm to selfish to give up my body and 9 months of my life for that. The only time the father should be taken into consideration is when the woman is in a committed relationship with him. Even then the end decision is hers.
binny
