The whole particle/wave duality might be down to out anthropocentric view of reality, maybe the same as mind/brain duality. What if, at the sub-atomic level, what we perceive as being particle/wave duality is merely an "expression" of how the state of affairs intrinsically is? It would make sense, in that we on a day to day level experience waves and particles as discreet sizes in our Newtonian middle-world view; but where these boundaries becomes blurred out and become something completely different at the sub-atomic.
The sum is truly different from its parts.
The sum is truly different from its parts.