(June 10, 2013 at 4:23 pm)Doubting Thomas Wrote:(June 10, 2013 at 4:04 pm)Maelstrom Wrote: I am very perceptive, but it is usually difficult for me to know how someone is thinking or feeling unless they expressly inform me with words.
Same here. My wife, however, always reads WAY too much into things. Like if she asks me how my day's going and I don't answer in just the right tone of voice she thinks something's wrong. When I could just be tired or busy doing something and just give a short answer. Of course she says I don't talk to her enough but I've never really been a person who talks a lot.
But I never did understand why women always want someone to empathize with them rather than fixing the problem in the first place.
Your wife and I would get along great. I do that all the time. I talk way to much and I can solve my own problems after I vent about it to someone who cares.
