Don't care if being gay is natural or unnatural or just a "phase" some people go through or experimentation or rebellion or (insert anything else you can come up with here), it is not wrong. I've never grasped the obsession with the "gay is natural" argument, so what if it isn't? If it's a choice, big deal, as long as they're happy. But as so many subscribe to the other argument, it has been shown biologically that gay people are born gay. So.
@Drich
If a woman finds out her bf/husband is gay, unlikely she'll want to be with him in that sense. Concealing his gayness from her is a bad thing to do, she has unknowingly dedicated many years of her life to a man who is unable to feel the same way. The right thing to do is to be honest and salvage what is left, not continuing on and be miserable together till death. Please don't say lie to her to keep her happy, that's condescending and disrespectful, also making the enormous assumption that she can only be happy with you.
@Drich
If a woman finds out her bf/husband is gay, unlikely she'll want to be with him in that sense. Concealing his gayness from her is a bad thing to do, she has unknowingly dedicated many years of her life to a man who is unable to feel the same way. The right thing to do is to be honest and salvage what is left, not continuing on and be miserable together till death. Please don't say lie to her to keep her happy, that's condescending and disrespectful, also making the enormous assumption that she can only be happy with you.
