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(July 12, 2013 at 11:18 am)Bows n Arrows Wrote: I think much of the problem was the way it was all handled.....er, wasn't.


for instance, would it possibly have been moved to one of your other forums?- the 18 and older, etc.

That would entirely depend on the content. We keep any truly adult things - salacious talk about sex, porn, etc, in Area 69.

Some of it is judgment factor though - for instance, I personally think it is possible to have a mature, reasoned, and fairly clinical discussion about some aspect of sex or psychological sexual things without being pornographic about it, and I think people under 18 can and do benefit from the exposure to it and shouldn't be shielded from it. It's not like they won't find a plethora of shit about it on the net anyway.

It's the same with pedophilia: it is possible to discuss this in clinical ways, or in testimonial ways, without being pornographic, and in such a manner as to invite rational discussion about a topic that receives incredibly irrational (not blaming anyone at all for it) feelings as knee-jerk responses.

This is my personal opinion though, and other staff members (of any forum) who have children 18 or younger may feel differently. In my experience of the staff here though, rational discussion about how to run the forum, despite personal feelings, about a subject DOES go on. And despite many outwardly flippant attitudes, the staff here takes their jobs very seriously. I know I did, which is why I left for a time and didn't come back on as staff - I didn't want the responsibility (which I held in as high regard as you can hold something which exists in virtual reality) again.

Oh, actually, making a joke on anjele's thread reminded me:

We've had some problems with former members who decided they didn't like how 'repressive' we were being, so this might crop up from time to time, but after experiencing this attitude here and in meatspace in the local atheist group I belong to, I've come to realize that there are some people who, for whatever reason IRL or online, run into personal problems and decide to take it out on everyone else and create a massive 'conspiracy' against themselves inside their own heads because it makes them feel better to think that everyone is out to get them than to realize sometimes you're powerless against outside problems.

So if any of you left because of the above reason and you think to play the martyr here, you won't get much sympathy. If you left because you couldn't stand the negativity and want to hold discussions with friendly, inclusive people, you've come to the right place.
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hello - by Bows n Arrows - July 6, 2013 at 1:39 am
RE: hello - by simplexity - July 6, 2013 at 1:44 am
RE: hello - by KichigaiNeko - July 6, 2013 at 1:48 am
RE: hello - by Minimalist - July 6, 2013 at 1:49 am
RE: hello - by Full Circle - July 6, 2013 at 2:01 am
RE: hello - by Kayenneh - July 6, 2013 at 2:01 am
RE: hello - by Bows n Arrows - July 6, 2013 at 2:35 am
RE: hello - by fr0d0 - July 6, 2013 at 5:43 am
RE: hello - by Tartarus Sauce - July 6, 2013 at 2:45 am
RE: hello - by Smidgen - July 6, 2013 at 2:49 am
RE: hello - by momsurroundedbyboys - July 6, 2013 at 4:01 am
RE: hello - by Ben Davis - July 8, 2013 at 8:24 am
RE: hello - by Chas - July 9, 2013 at 5:19 am
RE: hello - by Napoléon - July 9, 2013 at 7:33 am
RE: hello - by Fidel_Castronaut - July 9, 2013 at 7:49 am
RE: hello - by fr0d0 - July 9, 2013 at 2:21 pm
RE: hello - by Bows n Arrows - July 9, 2013 at 7:39 pm
RE: hello - by Minimalist - July 9, 2013 at 2:32 pm
RE: hello - by arewethereyet - July 10, 2013 at 7:28 pm
RE: hello - by Full Circle - July 10, 2013 at 9:35 pm
RE: hello - by thesummerqueen - July 10, 2013 at 7:58 pm
RE: hello - by arewethereyet - July 10, 2013 at 8:03 pm
RE: hello - by Minimalist - July 10, 2013 at 9:15 pm
RE: hello - by evenheathen - July 10, 2013 at 9:18 pm
RE: hello - by Rayaan - July 10, 2013 at 9:41 pm
RE: hello - by Minimalist - July 10, 2013 at 10:13 pm
RE: hello - by evenheathen - July 11, 2013 at 12:41 am
RE: hello - by Rayaan - July 10, 2013 at 9:54 pm
RE: hello - by Mystical - July 10, 2013 at 10:05 pm
RE: hello - by Rayaan - July 10, 2013 at 11:12 pm
RE: hello - by Bows n Arrows - July 11, 2013 at 12:16 am
RE: hello - by thesummerqueen - July 11, 2013 at 6:19 am
RE: hello - by Chas - July 11, 2013 at 7:29 am
RE: hello - by pocaracas - July 11, 2013 at 6:29 am
RE: hello - by viocjit - July 11, 2013 at 1:23 pm
RE: hello - by Bows n Arrows - July 11, 2013 at 10:26 pm
RE: hello - by arewethereyet - July 11, 2013 at 11:41 pm
RE: hello - by Chas - July 12, 2013 at 8:58 am
RE: hello - by thesummerqueen - July 12, 2013 at 6:22 am
RE: hello - by Bows n Arrows - July 12, 2013 at 11:18 am
RE: hello - by thesummerqueen - July 12, 2013 at 11:38 am
RE: hello - by Bows n Arrows - July 12, 2013 at 12:54 pm
RE: hello - by LostLocke - July 12, 2013 at 9:15 am
RE: hello - by thesummerqueen - July 12, 2013 at 12:56 pm
RE: hello - by arewethereyet - July 12, 2013 at 9:32 pm
RE: hello - by Mystical - July 13, 2013 at 4:36 am

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