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[arewethereyet]

I think the reason I was considered a problem is that I tend to speak up. I can get rather passionate. Funny thing is that the person who publicly said I was a problem had sent many messages saying I was an asset to the board. Go figure. I try to be supportive of people who are hurting and I also like to talk about things with people who have a sense of humor and a reasonable level of intelligence.

My rep is pretty decent over there and I was recently named a veteran...I am certainly not a martyr...just sick and tired of stupid shit and admins making rules as they go along...as in "cause I said so". Or the reverse...not being able to make a decision while Rome burns.

Allowing pedophiles to start showing up and telling us how victims really aren't hurt that bad by being molested did the forum no good. It certainly wasn't a clinical or scientific discussion. And to have a minor there communicating via PM with one of them and it being condoned put me over the edge. I am not good with anyone who hurts kids.

Off my soapbox...will enjoy getting to know all of you here...