RE: How are you today?
July 18, 2013 at 9:10 am
(This post was last modified: July 18, 2013 at 9:12 am by festive1.)
(July 18, 2013 at 5:41 am)NoraBrimstone Wrote: I'm in an ambulance right now. Taking my Grandfather back to the hospital. Hmm.
Sorry, Nora. That sucks (((HUGS)))
(July 18, 2013 at 5:48 am)Maelstrom Wrote: The how are you? question is an overrated and overused question of an irrelevant social construct. I never answer the questions just as no one asking truly wants to hear the truth that I am feeling awful. I would rather ignore the question than place the other individual in such an uncomfortable position under which they are placing me by asking me that question.
Best way to make them uncomfortable? Answer honestly. They asked, they deserve the consequences... and you'll get to vent... I think of that as win-win.
Perhaps, people would be less likely to bandy this question about if more people answered it honestly, instead of just saying, "Fine, and you?"