That's very cool, pappy. Was your father a Marine?
The thing is, I made my peace with my father in July. Told him th. gs that needed to be said (positive, not negative). I didn't want him to die before I had a chance to tell him that despite the distance between us, that I always have loved him. He's emotionally distant, always has been, and I can't recall him ever telling me that he loved me or was proud of me. Nor has he called or written, even on my birthday, for as long as I can remember.
I have been willing to repair our relationship, if only he were willing to meet me part way. He just seemed unable or unwilling to do so.
Yeah, it's sad.
The thing is, I made my peace with my father in July. Told him th. gs that needed to be said (positive, not negative). I didn't want him to die before I had a chance to tell him that despite the distance between us, that I always have loved him. He's emotionally distant, always has been, and I can't recall him ever telling me that he loved me or was proud of me. Nor has he called or written, even on my birthday, for as long as I can remember.
I have been willing to repair our relationship, if only he were willing to meet me part way. He just seemed unable or unwilling to do so.
Yeah, it's sad.