But you already know where your dislike of women comes from. That's half the battle! You know those messages were incorrect.
You need to take women -- hell, men, too -- as you find them. Some you will like, some you will not. They're just people. Saying this is easy; practicing it will be hard. But it's a matter of retraining your thinking, which is something we can all do if we choose to. Continue with your professional help as well. If you have a good counselor, it's probably your quickest route to overcoming your prejudice against women.
You need to take women -- hell, men, too -- as you find them. Some you will like, some you will not. They're just people. Saying this is easy; practicing it will be hard. But it's a matter of retraining your thinking, which is something we can all do if we choose to. Continue with your professional help as well. If you have a good counselor, it's probably your quickest route to overcoming your prejudice against women.