Are you certain that your feelings towards other women stem from a self-hatred instilled by your mother? Because it seems equally probable that you're projecting your feelings that you have for your mother onto other women.
Either way, it's clear that your mother has psychological control over you, and freeing yourself from that would go a long way to a happier, healthier life. As others have said, assert yourself, and keep in mind that people only have as much control over us as we allow them to have.
Either way, it's clear that your mother has psychological control over you, and freeing yourself from that would go a long way to a happier, healthier life. As others have said, assert yourself, and keep in mind that people only have as much control over us as we allow them to have.
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell