(September 20, 2013 at 8:57 pm)Psykhronic Wrote: Really? He seemed to just say that he has not smoked in months. And isn't THAT frequent of a drinker. You make it sound like every second he is puffing or pounding something back.And I just said that I'm concerned with the thought patterns associated with his use, with no mention of the frequency. Yet, all you hear is frequency.
Quote:Here's the thing about nagging - too much, and it turns people away.Here's the thing about enabling - it keeps people in bad habits.
Consider this - if drugs aren't a problem for him, then it isn't a problem for him to stop using them for a year, is it? And doesn't it seem that it might be helpful for someone with mental problems to stop self-medicating with recreational drugs until such problems have been successfully treated?