(November 18, 2013 at 7:25 pm)futilethewinds Wrote: I don't make sex noises. I'm very quiet. I'm working on it because I realize that people need feedback.Me, too! I get VERY quiet before and during orgasm, until the back spasms, when I say "ow." It has weirded some lovers out. It just feels strange to "fake it" by adding noise when I don't want to make any damned noise. And I've always had back spasms from orgasm, and it always hurts a little.
Probably TMI, and definitely off-topic, but I'm wondering about wet dreams. I always thought they were for men, and then I turned 40 and for the past couple of years I've been pretty consistently having a rocking good sleep sex life. Do other women experience this? Do men continue to experience it, or start experiencing more often later? I realize that I'm in those fabled years of cougardom, but I never expected to be doing it all by myself so well without even meaning to.
