(November 27, 2013 at 4:47 pm)pineapplebunnybounce Wrote: And how has anything I said been hateful?
Oh no no no - that wasn't directed toward you in any way. That was directed at the suggestion I teach them to say something about blowing jesus etc. That's not what I'm going for here :-)
(November 27, 2013 at 4:47 pm)pineapplebunnybounce Wrote: Well, tell them to think of a different person to thank each meal, can be an activity, raises awareness for historical contributions as well. I don't know if you're not going for awareness what were you going for? Ritual? I don't see the value in rituals in this type of setting, so I won't know what's best.
I guess it is partly for ritual. I like ritual. This is sort of philosophical and not statement of fact, but I think it's human nature to be drawn to ritual as a way to bond. Traditions and ritual help people connect. Thanking a different person at each meal is also a good idea. I think it mostly comes down to me wanting to both find a way to respect my husband's beliefs without compromising my own, and teach my children to respect and appreciate the sources of their food. We have a garden, which I hope encourages that too. I sound really hippy-ish don't I? LOL I'm not particularly.
