Lukec, Oh dear, I seem to have given you the wrong impression on several points you mention. We are all 'under rules' right now-the law of the land whether we like it or not and we all have responsibilty, so I'm not asking to be absolved in some way. I'm not sure how you got that impression?? 
Yes, maybe life does exist elsewhere and gravity is different there.
I am most definately not 'down on life'. I was replying to LukeMC's points. Yes bad things happen to us all. I know that life is one big up and down. I love life so much I want it to last. I can imagine life without bad. Maybe that's why I can be 'persuaded' by this 'fairy story'. I don't lead my life in any kind of religious way. I live it just like you, trying to do my best, enjoying life to the full etc.

Yes, maybe life does exist elsewhere and gravity is different there.
I am most definately not 'down on life'. I was replying to LukeMC's points. Yes bad things happen to us all. I know that life is one big up and down. I love life so much I want it to last. I can imagine life without bad. Maybe that's why I can be 'persuaded' by this 'fairy story'. I don't lead my life in any kind of religious way. I live it just like you, trying to do my best, enjoying life to the full etc.
"The eternal mystery of the world is its comprehensibility"
Albert Einstein
Albert Einstein