(January 12, 2014 at 3:36 pm)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote:Quote:Co-dependency is the situation that exists when another person's happiness is essential to your own.
No, because co-dependency involves a measure of control exerted by one of the parties involved. Love, properly speaking, does not.
Boru
My happiness is unaffected by the status of that of my spouse, and yet I "love" her dearly. I can empathize with her if she is suffering, but my "happiness" is independent of hers, and is not co-dependent upon hers.