(January 15, 2014 at 10:33 pm)Ivy Wrote: I have seen my mother gain weight due to her meds for years. Fuck people who have judged her.
I also know people who are big due to what they eat. Not my place to judge their reasons. I don't know the details.
I have, however, had to sit with clients and hear them talk about their misery every time people bully them about their weight. I know those details. They suck.
People who gain weight from meds and such do have legit reasons and struggles with their weight. Of course, my heart goes out to them.
Unfortunately, when people see them on the street, they don't know their circumstances, and judge them strictly on appearance as most people do.
I have seen at my work, many women bitch and complain and talk about dieting constantly. They never follow through with it, and just continue to whine about it. So I have a hard time feeling sympathy for those.