"Entitled to sex" feels a whole fuck of a lot like a strawman. I don't think Dusty said it once in that video (I watched it yesterday). In fact, I don't think I've heard anyone say they felt entitled to sex, except maybe a few douchebags who are better off ignored. For the most part, it seems to be either limited to a heavy minority of men or the words are twisted and manipulated into meaning something totally different from what was actually said; either way, I call bullshit.
When I have heard guys complain about being friendzoned, it usually falls under one of two categories. I've seen both of these happen quite a bit (especially in high school):
1) Guys who feel like the girl is manipulating him via the crush he has on her without ever actually dating her
2) Guys who are actually good, decent, respectful people who are sick and tired of the object of their affection coming to them to complain about the douchebag guys they keep dating
Me, I think either one of those two guys has legitimate complaints.
On another note, he also stated that if she isn't into you, just move on because it's better off for both of you. Again, I think that's good advice.
When I have heard guys complain about being friendzoned, it usually falls under one of two categories. I've seen both of these happen quite a bit (especially in high school):
1) Guys who feel like the girl is manipulating him via the crush he has on her without ever actually dating her
2) Guys who are actually good, decent, respectful people who are sick and tired of the object of their affection coming to them to complain about the douchebag guys they keep dating
Me, I think either one of those two guys has legitimate complaints.
On another note, he also stated that if she isn't into you, just move on because it's better off for both of you. Again, I think that's good advice.
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
