The main driving factor of a man's sexiness is confidence, there are other attributes too but confidence is the engine. If you fall into the friend zone, chances are you replaced confidence with niceness and that does not make you attractive to women. And the reason that men replace niceness is because women tell men they want a nice guy, but as a guy you cannot listen to that. Do not take advice on getting women from women, it's shitty advice. I cannot begin to tell you how many times I've heard "I just want a nice guy that treats me right" and then watch the girl walk out with a douche that has a neck tattoo of an AK-47 that's talking about how her head is shaped weird.
You will never be able to friend your way into a girl's bed. To my fellow men that keep getting friend zoned, you honestly just have to stop caring what she thinks. Being nice implies that you want her approval of you, and men that are overly nice tend to get friend zoned. If you are trying to get her approval it makes you look like a bitch. She wants a man that doesn't care for the approval of anyone, including herself.
You will never be able to friend your way into a girl's bed. To my fellow men that keep getting friend zoned, you honestly just have to stop caring what she thinks. Being nice implies that you want her approval of you, and men that are overly nice tend to get friend zoned. If you are trying to get her approval it makes you look like a bitch. She wants a man that doesn't care for the approval of anyone, including herself.