(February 28, 2014 at 12:53 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: So my mum has asked on several different occasions usually after trying and failing to set me up if I'm gay. As a bisexual is it lying to say no? My rule is don't tell her if she doesn't ask specifically.
I'm trying to understand why you being bisexual is an issue when your mother is trying to set you up. She might only be playing with half the deck, but dudes are still in play right? What I'm saying is that as a bisexual, men aren't off limits correct? So there must be other reasons for you mother's failed attempts at match maker.
Perhaps I simply don't understand. My assumption is that a bisexual is perfectly capable of a loving, committed, and sexually intimate relationship with another, but gender is irrlevant. Choices may be different if you want to raise children of your own I suppose. Even then, there are ways to accomodate a same sex relationship.
I could be assuming too much, but it almost sounds as if you're looking for a reason to divulge your sexual orientation. I don't mean this in a mean spirited way. I can only imagine how difficult this will be for you if you think your mother will be less than understanding. Prescient needs are often required to help incentivize the last step in executing any unpleasent endeavor.
