(April 5, 2010 at 12:02 pm)Archbow Wrote: Should I just play the Religious card and tell her the same "God said it was his time" bullshit I was told as a kid, or tell her my beliefs on how to deal with a loss of a loved one?Sorry to hear about your friend.
Arch, you'll need to say something more productive than the tired "God came to collect" malarkey, that may not be what she needs right now. Either say nothing and comfort her grieving or change the subject and try to make her as happy as possible until she can cope with this loss.