What to do if someone tries to rape you

[My imaginary friend is GOD]

I was saying a gay Guy getting raped would ussually not be as traumatizing or life-destroyer as someone who is very concerned about their masculine identity having their anus used like a pussy.

But being gay is not a thing that entails being less "concerned about their masculine identity having their anus used like a pussy". Regardless of whether a man is gay or straight, being "masculine" is most likely extremely important to him because in our culture, being "masculine" considered fundamentally a better thing than being "feminine."