Friends with benefits?

[*Deidre*]

I remember you mentioning this in another thread. Maybe it works best with rekindled friendships. haha

We're friends. We socialise a little with each other but not a lot, otherwise.

I think part of the secret is just to not overdo it.

And, seriously, he was shy until we got down to it.

If the guy is too eager, or someone you work with or see a lot, I'm not sure it would work.

I think it's cool that you and he make it work. This guy and I have been friends for some time now. And no one sets out to say...ok, let's become fwb. lol But, for example, he rubs my back. I rub his. And we both look at each other like...ummmm....can I haz more? hehe But, we tend to stop, and call it a night...he goes home/I go home.

Honestly, think we are both afraid of ruining our frienship, no matter how aroused we make one another. :p

I suppose that's good. Shows I put my friendship before my sexual needs. See? I'm so altruistic. :p