(April 18, 2014 at 6:17 pm)Losty Wrote:(April 18, 2014 at 5:17 pm)FlyingNarwhal Wrote: Of course, coolness is part of what makes me sexy.
A woman could go into a bar or club, grind her ass on a guy, and get him to go home with her in a matter of minutes if she so chose to. Where as I need to be confident, charming, funny, cool and have an overall attractive personality in order to get a woman. At the end of the night I get you, you don't get me.
So guys truly have no standards?
If I'm going to just fuck some random from a bar you've got the wrong set of standards. You're talking about boyfriend material. I don't want to go falling "in like" with bar dude. I'm just trying to get laid. He needs to be confident, maybe a bit arrogant, and kind of pushy....besides from that hygiene is important. Maybe your standards are higher than you think and that's why it seems harder than it is. Or maybe I'm the only chick browsing the bar for that one guy who will just grab my ass and say "walk towards the exit, I'm going to take you home and fuck you now"
But seriously. Don't take advice from me bc I'm probably crazy, but I'm most likely to have sex with first man who says I'm going to have sex with him. I don't think charming randoms are safe, they'd probably either get clingy or charm me so much that I'd want to get clingy.
Losty everything you wrote their is incredibly sexy, but you are a rare find. And the confidence, arrogance, and pushiness is all learned, men act different around women. If I saw you in a bar, the way I would talk to you would be completely different from how I talk to my friend, because I don't need the whole grandiose confidence and slightly charming arrogance talking to him...but women do. Men learn a behavior to get women, that's what makes us cooler. We're in you're minds.
As far as men's standards, yeah they're pretty low, at least if all we're looking for is sex. If a man is looking for a companion though, he tends to look for different qualities though.
(April 18, 2014 at 6:43 pm)Sedna Wrote:(April 18, 2014 at 5:17 pm)FlyingNarwhal Wrote: A woman could go into a bar or club, grind her ass on a guy, and get him to go home with her in a matter of minutes if she so chose to.I don't think that'd work for me.
Why not?
