(June 20, 2014 at 6:38 pm)Bad Wolf Wrote: ...if there is one thing that women are the best at, it's hearing what you say and taking it the worst way possible! Sorry ladies if that sounds a bit sexist and i'm generalising.(partial quote)
This has not been my experience with women. Perhaps you are approaching what you say from a skewed angle. They're pretty good at picking up on intention. Also, I find that direct eye contact is best when addressing such sensitive matters with women. They've asked a vulnerable question - I say give them your all.
I'm sure there are plenty of women who do project their own stuff onto whatever a man might say to them, but if a man is attentive, he can deflect the projection, and reflect a clearer representation of beauty.