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Poll: Can an Athiest/Christian Marriage Work
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Should I stay with a christian
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RE: Should I stay with a christian
(June 30, 2014 at 1:17 pm)rasetsu Wrote: Question: Have you talked to him about your concerns about your religious differences?



Yea I have and hes has been more than open about it he says he doesnt really care and he understand my reasons for not being a christian and he respects them. Today isnt the problem its tomorrow that concerns me. He maybe open to his religion but his bible tells him not to be. I guess what alarmed me was his increased use of the bible. he never really payed much attention to it before but now he is starting to go to bible studies and read his bible more. i know this is where the conflicts arise

(June 30, 2014 at 11:11 pm)Minimalist Wrote:
Quote:Plus his mother is a pastor and his family is full of strong devout Christians.


Oh. Bad genes.

The reason I asked about the age is because the "visions" thing can be symptomatic of adult onset schizophrenia but 23 seems a bit old for that ( usually starts in the late teens.)


You'll have to decide if it is worth putting up with his delusions. The odds are he will get worse in the sense of more doctrinaire.

I dont think he so much as delusional but that he doesnt understand how the mind works. Underestimates how common "deju vu". I guess its something I need to bring to his attention but i DRED hurting him by telling him. He wants me to believe him and support him. Its not that big of a deal to me he hasnt gotten excessive with it so I just have been sort of going along with it
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Should I stay with a christian - by sweetjalepeno - June 29, 2014 at 8:07 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Dystopia - June 29, 2014 at 8:11 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Zidneya - June 29, 2014 at 8:16 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by ignoramus - June 29, 2014 at 8:23 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Cinjin - June 29, 2014 at 8:27 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Dystopia - June 29, 2014 at 8:38 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by psychoslice - June 29, 2014 at 8:42 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Ravenshire - June 29, 2014 at 8:50 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Dystopia - June 29, 2014 at 8:56 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by ShaMan - June 29, 2014 at 9:09 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Losty - June 29, 2014 at 9:30 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by ShaMan - June 29, 2014 at 9:38 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by vorlon13 - June 29, 2014 at 9:36 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Mudhammam - June 29, 2014 at 9:53 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by The Grand Nudger - June 29, 2014 at 10:02 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Minimalist - June 29, 2014 at 10:21 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by sweetjalepeno - June 30, 2014 at 10:57 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Dystopia - July 1, 2014 at 10:58 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Cinjin - July 2, 2014 at 10:56 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Elskidor - June 29, 2014 at 10:26 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Jenny A - June 29, 2014 at 11:26 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Angrboda - June 30, 2014 at 1:17 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by sweetjalepeno - June 30, 2014 at 11:21 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by John V - June 30, 2014 at 2:39 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by FatAndFaithless - June 30, 2014 at 2:40 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Losty - June 30, 2014 at 3:28 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Jenny A - June 30, 2014 at 9:43 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Minimalist - June 30, 2014 at 10:44 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Jenny A - July 2, 2014 at 10:02 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by CindysRain - June 30, 2014 at 10:55 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Mothonis - June 30, 2014 at 11:56 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Mister Agenda - June 30, 2014 at 3:23 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Dystopia - June 30, 2014 at 4:15 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Mister Agenda - July 1, 2014 at 10:52 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by FatAndFaithless - July 1, 2014 at 10:57 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by pocaracas - June 30, 2014 at 4:05 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by ManMachine - June 30, 2014 at 6:04 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Brian37 - June 30, 2014 at 7:20 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by BlackSwordsman - June 30, 2014 at 10:03 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Minimalist - June 30, 2014 at 11:11 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Cato - July 1, 2014 at 12:36 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by pocaracas - July 1, 2014 at 1:37 pm
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Mr Greene - July 2, 2014 at 9:54 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Jaysyn - July 2, 2014 at 10:04 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Polaris - July 3, 2014 at 12:36 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Jenny A - July 3, 2014 at 12:50 am
RE: Should I stay with a christian - by Polaris - July 3, 2014 at 5:48 pm

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