(July 25, 2014 at 7:17 pm)Elskidor Wrote: Just got to thinking about it is all. I'm pretty much a loner sort besides my wife, daughter, random message forums and a select few friends I mmo with every other year or so. I think recently while waiting for my wife's new job to start I've been feeling very swarmed with no alone time and I love my space. I got to thinking I probably could live in some type of long distant relationship if I had to, but she would have to be in one of those low security prisons that allow couples to live 48 hours in their own little condo several times a year for the physical needs. Of course my current medication has destroyed my sex drive so I really don't have sexual urges but love my cuddles. Cuddles will be missed most dearly.
You sound like my husband. Not the sex drive, but the extreme introvertedness. I'm also introverted, just not to that extreme. But much of my part in making our family working is seeing to it that he gets some space. We schedule into the day. Fortunately downtime reading or typing in the same room seems to count as space provided no one is yammering.
Quote:You don't really hear of many guys choosing women inmates like you do women marrying men. I'm curious why they decide to go down this route, and if it is because people like solitude or possibly have just been burnt one too many times and wish to choose someone that can't physically hurt them or cheat on them.
Because women seem to be more likely to be romantic idiots than men. I don't know why. It's not all of us. And I don't get it.
If there is a god, I want to believe that there is a god. If there is not a god, I want to believe that there is no god.
