Is there a solution to this problem?

[Ace Otana]

Not to be a downer, but if she's a good mother, she will tell you that her and the kid are a package deal. It can't be any other way. If you do start dating her, she won't expect you to support the child at first, but you have to be willing to do that eventually if she is to believe it can go anywhere... and if she doesn't care whether or not it goes anywhere... she probably isn't worth the effort to begin with. Same for you. If you can't see a time when you'd be interested in supporting the kid (at the very least), then don't start something with her that can only end badly for both of you.

Eye.
I fear of what the future might hold. I've got future plans that require alot of money. Be quite difficult to support both my future plans and raising another mans child.
I can't see myself supporting any child. Which is why I think this whole thing will implode.
Though I still plan to have a little convo with her.

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See? Wasn't that easy?

You just want the dirty details don't you?

Depends on how far you are willing to go to do it...

That's the thing, I'm not willing to go anywhere with it. Don't want to be involved with all that.
Hence the problem I face.