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Whether people see it as cherry-picking or not is going to depend a lot on how you read the bible. For example I read the bible as an unfolding understanding of God; hence later biblical voices can criticise actions earlier that were celebrated. For example the killing of the house of Ahab at Jazreel is celebrated in the books of Kings, but is seen as a reason for disgrace and revenge by the prophet Hosea. It is perhaps more an English than American tradition to see the bible as 'the books God wants us to hear' (as Rowan Williams puts it). We can then engage with them and even disagree with actions of people who were convinced that they were doing God's will. Like Hosea, we may see what was previously celebrated as actually being deeply misguided (or perhaps sometimes only appropriate for their time).

Replace "your reading of the bible" with "the cherries, real or imaginary, that you've picked", And "unfolding understanding of god" with "making it up as you go to suit yourself", or with "grabbing whatever imaginary crutches along the way that will prop up and expand your own particular self delusion", And you would have been more intellectually honest, and equivalently less Christian.