Why I am so passionate about speaking out against feminism.

[Zidneya]

Still, not knowing is the hardest part. Was it malicious or was it just confusion and honesty? Those are the only two choices I can see.

It doesn't matter. Either if it was malicious or confusion that won't change the fact that if she come back into your life she will do it again. Because think about it. If it was malicious she will do it again at the first chance and if it was confusion it will happen again at the first misunderstanding. You're better without her pal.