RE: AFA: Impregnated by a rapist? "Why kill a child made in God’s image?"
December 20, 2014 at 12:04 pm
(This post was last modified: December 20, 2014 at 12:04 pm by Dystopia.)
(December 20, 2014 at 11:59 am)Alice Wrote:I think rapes perpetuated by men against men are a more relevant point - I think women are more commonly than people think authors of domestic abuse (psychological) because domestic violence is not only physical as some might think - But it depends on the State law. Females can rape trough coercion but it's not as relevant or problematic.. Rapes against men by other men are disregarded as shameful and victims are afraid to report it - Which is a result of excessive manhood and masculinity culture - "Getting pounded in the ass is a faggot thing don't tell anyone".(December 20, 2014 at 11:47 am)Blackout Wrote: All of this to say, and I'd bet my head on it - Most rapists are probably regular Johns with no relevant psychological or psychic problems, and evidence for that would be that in highly patriarchal societies rape is more prevalent (look at India) - Which leads to the conclusion that social acceptance and disregard for rape, as well as sexual entitlement to the victim's body and a the feeling of power and domination (that the perpetrator feels owed too) are the primary causes of rape. So no, I don't think there's actually probability of the child being a rapist just because the dad was too, as long as he/she isn't educated in a society that makes rape something acceptable.
Well hey, refine a point to me, and learn me something new.
Probably more about the 'feeling owed'/having power over another than it is about patriarchy... it's important to remember that women can (and do) rape too. Usually overwhelming with emotional/psychological manipulation (blackmail for instance) that can leave the victim feeling just as powerless as physical might.
(December 20, 2014 at 11:59 am)Alice Wrote:I think rapes perpetuated by men against men are a more relevant point - I think women are more commonly than people think authors of domestic abuse (psychological) because domestic violence is not only physical as some might think - But it depends on the State law. Females can rape trough coercion but it's not as relevant or problematic.. Rapes against men by other men are disregarded as shameful and victims are afraid to report it - Which is a result of excessive manhood and masculinity culture - "Getting pounded in the ass is a faggot thing don't tell anyone".(December 20, 2014 at 11:47 am)Blackout Wrote: All of this to say, and I'd bet my head on it - Most rapists are probably regular Johns with no relevant psychological or psychic problems, and evidence for that would be that in highly patriarchal societies rape is more prevalent (look at India) - Which leads to the conclusion that social acceptance and disregard for rape, as well as sexual entitlement to the victim's body and a the feeling of power and domination (that the perpetrator feels owed too) are the primary causes of rape. So no, I don't think there's actually probability of the child being a rapist just because the dad was too, as long as he/she isn't educated in a society that makes rape something acceptable.
Well hey, refine a point to me, and learn me something new.
Probably more about the 'feeling owed'/having power over another than it is about patriarchy... it's important to remember that women can (and do) rape too. Usually overwhelming with emotional/psychological manipulation (blackmail for instance) that can leave the victim feeling just as powerless as physical might.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you