(December 30, 2014 at 9:22 pm)JesusChristLover Wrote: My wife keeps sucking the life out of me.
What you have there is an attitude. And that attitude is it's all about me. You go off on a vacation without her and forget her birthday, but she's sucking the life out of you? Really?
Quote:I forgot to wish her Happy Birthday and she went all nuts, to the point of going for a night out with another man (who is apparently just a friend).
I take that seriously. You are in deep doo-doo.
Quote:Just a few weeks ago, she went on full rage because I forgot to book tickets for a movie.
You've reached the pointed where you have failed her enough that everything she asks you to do is a test. She's looking for reasons to believe and you're failing her.
Quote:All this drama started a few months ago when I left for a week's vacation to New Zealand with my buddies.
What should I do?
*PS: She is not cheating with me - that I am fully convinced.
First Apply a Band-aide to the marriage while you still have a wife: Plan a very special night or even day out doing something together that you know she loves to do. It might be best if it's not your favorite thing. You should make all the arrangements.
Second: Ask yourself if you really care about your wife, because that's not the message you are sending.
Third: Have a serious conversation with your wife about talking more, doing more together, and fighting less.
If there is a god, I want to believe that there is a god. If there is not a god, I want to believe that there is no god.
